Grab a piece of paper and write your special someone a letter...draw a heart on it if you feel its missing something. Stay in and create a beautiful and romantic night at home with your special someone and release all expectations. You'll not only save a load of cash by not having to hire a babysitter {if you can even find one} but you can make a delicious restaurant quality meal at home and serve it with a great bottle of red wine and I'll guarantee you everyone will be happier.
Plan ahead and get the kids ready for bed early so that at 7:30/8:00 they are down from the night; set the table with your fancy china and crystal {it is a "special" occasion after all}; light some votive candles around the house [or light up the fireplace if weather permits]; turn on some great music and you and your honey can celebrate your love completely alone {and uninterrupted}.
I picked up a cd at Starbucks called Dinner for Two. It's a mellow mix showcasing tunes from Nina Simone, Dinah Washington, Nat King Cole, Cowboy Junkies and more. If you don't have the time, just put together a playlist of you and your honey's favorite songs. Don't have time to make a mix either? Just plug in Gypsy Kings to Pandora radio and you'll be good to go!
Whatever you do, don't forget the wine. If you can get your hands on it, the Chiarello Family Vineyards 2009 Bambino Cabernet Sauvignon is absolutely amazing and would pair perfectly with this dinner.